Thursday, December 10, 2009

What do i do about this?

my boyfriend performed the sexual act of squirting on me he pushed hard when i pushed away he pushed harder he said sometimes he loses his mind. Later on that night i bled, i went to the doctors they did a smear test i had an infection, and the test came back as no reading because of the swelling i had to take another one asap but that showed to be ok. i told him later he wasnt sorry for making me bleed just sorry for me havig to go to the doctors thats all . he said it was good hard sex. Is he right? or is it abuse.



What do i do about this?shows



its abuse, you said no.



sex is between consenting adults, and did you consent that is the question you should ask?



What do i do about this?comedy show opera theater



It can be both. He really shouldn't hurt you by having sex but that sex is too hard. I think it is mostly abuse and a little of bit hard sex.
Throw him in jail and find a nicer boyfriend.
well wat i believe i think that it is sexual abuse. If some has sex with you and you dont wanna but they do it anyway thats sexual abuse.
Technically, it's both. He should have listened to you or your body language and backed off a bit.
even if you told him to stop, he probably wouldnt care.
common some one makes you bleed and you say that ok!!!!!!!



i would have dumped such person. who knows what happens next????? no risk taking..
if its the first time then maybe it was hard sex, but if it happens again, then you need to pick up and go, and not only that, if he didn't show any remorse then it is still a form of abuse. You deserve better.
Sex is special, it is supposed to be something that people (in marriage) enjoy together.



Your boyfriends actions are wrong, sex should be of benefit to both parties involved.



My advice: Never sleep with him again.
1. Dump your b/f



2. If you vocally agree to a bit of rough, or do not say stop. you have learned a vauble lesson (speak up).



3. if you did say no or ask him to stop - or just didn't say yes. notify the police.
Any time he does something against your wishes its considered abuse. As long as you clearly say so. If he does something that makes you that uncomfortable, and causes you physical harm also, consider that abuse. Good sex should cause neither of these things.

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