Thursday, December 10, 2009

Only serious answers PLEASE! Should I be concerned?

I have been married a little over a year and my spouse have done some things out of the ordinary. Our sex life have been a bit slow (not because of me) and out of the blue he wants to perform oral sex(something we have never engaged in). After that he only wanted to put the head in instead of full trush. Mind you that only a few months ago when it came to sex he would turn his back to me and showed no interest. And if we did he only wanted it doggy style, not face to face.



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Chances are if he is getting new ideas about sex they are coming from somewhere. But don't assume the worst! It could be adult magazines or videos. Have a real conversation with him about your fears. Make sure he knows if you are open to expanding your sexuality, but do it as a couple. Let him know you if are not comfortable with him springing new ideas up in the bedroom. Communicating is the most empowering thing you can do for a relationship.



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Talk to him about. Be straight forward and frank.
You should really be talking to your husband about this, not total strangers.
Maybe he's trying to spice it up. This could be a good thing.
ask him.
Well maybe he was just in a rut at the time, I mean he could have looked at porn or something to get the ideas (which in my experience a lot of men do) IF you notice anything else suspicious I would worry, but that sounds fine to me, just enjoy!
Eh. Sounds like he might be cheating. Usually when a guy or girl starts wanting sex, or does it differently, it means they've done that with someone else. Maybe you should go to marriage counseling.
I agree.
What a strange sex life you have. He's probably been either watching porn, or banging someone else. Either way, he found some new stuff he likes.
this does sound strange and he sounds like he is getting information elsewhere tell him you two need to work it out together not elsewhere.



Good Luck and God Bless!!
I agree with kja63, go talk to him about this. You could accept it and be glad he is paying attention to you. Some women don't even get that.
He has his eye on something else. He can not get to her now so he is doing her through you.
seems like your sexual relationship was a bit askew before this, but maybe he is wanting to try new things...but, you shoulda been concerned before
i agree talk to u husband he's the one with the issues.
I would be concerned. See if he'll see a therapist with you for marriage counseling.
maybe he has been reading cosmo or some other girlymag, or some such sexhelp thing, if everything else is going fine then go with it have some trust.
The best thing to do is ask him directly. Be sure you're not confrontational. Ask in a calm and respectful manner. Don't ask like you're blaming him or assuming something.
you really need to communicate your concerns with your husband and let him know that this "change"is welcomed but, all at the same time is bothersome. Best wishes. sounds like he got a subscription to playboy.
Have a serious chat with him about it. Maybe he has notice that he you are getting bored and he only wants to spice it up .
call me
Maybe he is gay.
amen kja63. 2 pts!
Im sorry but you have to talk to him about this.it could possibly be that he dosent want to meet your eyes.
yeah you should be concerned if he wanting to do things he has never done with you before
i don't think this is the right site for your problem can appreciate your question but not here
seems like u have some rigid attitudes about "the right way to make love". Sit your hubby down and have an honest, open, nonjudgmental talk.
everymen loves doggy style because that blobby azz is right there in fron of you and you can see it shaking...
THAT IS WEIRD.....HAVE YOU ASKED HIM ABOUT WHAT HE DOES AND WHY? YA'LL NEED COUNSELING.
I agree with kja63! Communication is key in any marriage, but talk when you are both relaxed and NOT while in bed! Good luck!
it does feel better from behind, take control your self
he sounds like he is thinking of someone else and does not want you to know that so there for he can not look you in the face while having sex thinking maybe you would notice it so i would sit back and observe a lil if you know what i mean

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